Before you can submit to your husband you have to trust him completely.
You have to be sure he will always have your best interests at heart, even if you have broken the rules, you need to know he will take care of you, handle the household budget wisely and be fair in his decision making.
You cannot trust a man you is violent, drinks, gambles or is unfaithful and if you can’t trust him you will never be able to submit to him. Trust has to be earned and submission is a wonderful gift.