Set aside time each evening to spend with your husband.
During this time put your phone in do not disturb mode, turn off all social media & text notifications.
Give your Husband 100% of your attention.

Your husband does not want to feel as though he is coming second place to your phone or tablet.
Every time a notification bleeps or pops up on screen you are tempted to pick it up and check the message.
Just think how much time do you spend on your phone checking pointless notifications telling you about a cat video or who is having wine tonight. Every-time you pick up the phone you are disconnecting with your husband, when you should be connecting, talking, enjoying each others undivided attention.
You married your Husband not your smart phone