Your husband is not your enemy

Married life is not a bed of roses, and you will have arguments with your husband, this is perfectly normal and healthy for you to have disagreements. What is important is how you handle your attitude during a dispute.
You have to remember when you argue it is not a battle to see who wins or who loses.
It is not a matter of if he wins I lose or if I win he loses situation.
What you have to keep in mind is that you either both lose or both win if you don’t settle the disagreement and let it rot into something much bigger you, your husband and your marriage suffers, but if you resolve the argument, it is win-win for you, your husband and your marriage.
Always remember your husband is not your enemy, he is the man you fell in love with and chose to spend the rest of your life with.