No man wants to hear his wife swearing, cursing and shouting, there is nothing more unladylike than a woman who uses foul language, there is never any justification for you doing this and as a submissive wife this should be one of the first things that you stop.  

If you do swear and shout at him you should make sure that let him know how sorry and ashamed you are that you have let him down and yourself down by swearing and shouting.  
If you feel anger take a deep breath , step back and think before you speak, 1 minute of cursing can undo weeks of relationship building, you have to keep control of your mouth, do not allow it to get you into trouble, swearing never solves an argument it will only make it matters worse.  Temper tantrums are a childish way to try and get what you want.