Appropriate Office Party Conduct For Married Women at Christmas

One of the most dangerous times of the year for marriages is approaching, and this is why I have written my guide to Appropriate Office Party Conduct For a Married Woman.Tis the season to be jolly we all want to have fun, and there is no reason that you can’t have fun, but as a married woman, you have certain standards and obligations.Christmas is a dangerous season and is full of situations where temptation can get the better of you.As a married woman, you must stay faithful to your husband and not put yourself in situations where the devil can tempt you.
Try to imagine that a devil is sat on your shoulder all the time trying to encourage you to do wrong.

 

The Office works Christmas Party

For many this is the most dangerous day of the year, the mixture of excitement, alcohol and inappropriate thoughts about your work colleges can lead to disaster.  First, you should ask your husband for permission to go to the party, even if you know he will say yes, it is still a mark of respect to ask his permission.  If he says no, then respect his decision if he has said no your husband would have a good reason for why he believes you should not go.
Where possible ask your, husband, to escort you to the party, this is the best way to show predators that you are not available. If your husband cannot attend the party with you, make sure you have arrangements for your journey home, either your husband collect you or a pre-booked taxi.

 

Dress appropriately for the party, by all means, wear nice party clothing but if you are going without your husband you should be dressed modestly, you should not have to be careful how you bend, sit or be showing your undergarments.   Your clothing should not be that tight or sheer that your underwear outline shows.  Dress modestly and show respect for your husband and marriage.

Don’t drink more alcohol than you know you can handle, ideally stick to soft drinks; alcohol is the devil’s tools for getting rid of your inhibitions and sense.  After a few alcoholic beverages, your mind will not be clear, and the devil will tempt you to behave in ways you wouldn’t do when sober.
Save enjoying an alcoholic drink for when you are with your husband.

Don’t put yourself in situations where you are on your own with another man.  No matter how friendly this man is you do not know what is on his mind, your welfare will not be his priority, it is better to be safe than sorry.
Friends who try to encourage you to drink when you don’t want to are not your real friends; they won’t care if you ruin your marriage by being unfaithful, don’t allow them to change your mind on drinking.
If they do not respect your views, then they are not your real friends, and I suggest you find new friends. Real friends look out for each other, not tempt each other to sin.

The Christmas Kiss and cuddle

The only man you should ever kiss, and cuddle is your husband; there is no excuse for kissing another man on the lips, remember kissing is an intimate interaction, and it is adultery.
Also, be aware of the woman that wants to experiment, sadly these days it is not just men you have to be careful of, it is fashionable for ladies to want to experiment sexually with members of the same sex, do not allow yourself to fall into one of these traps.  Again, this is wrong you are a married woman, and it is adulatory.

 

Beware of game players

The office party is often where men and women with no standards look to prey on women who they know would never usually stray, they see it as a game to kiss, grope or have intercourse with the most unlikely women for a bet.
They are evil and cruel and will often want to take a trophy of their achievement photo, video article of underwear.  Don’t allow compliments and flattery to go to your head, guard your drinks so that no one can spike your drink.
Don’t be some cruel idiots’ trophy.

Stay safe, stay faithful, stay married this Christmas

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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