Communication is the key to a successful marriage.
Every marriage will have problems and the only way to work through them is with communication, you have to talk to each other. As a submissive wife you have to remember that when you talk to your husband about things are are bothering you or you don’t think are right you have to do it in a respectful way, do not start raising your voice at him and get all aggressive or over emotional, calmly and respectively explain your point of view. Give him time to consider what you have told him do not expect a reply immediately something have to be thought about, when he gives you his response and it is one that you do not like respect his decision, talk about his response but if he id firm on his reply then his word must be the final word.

You are more likely to get a favourable response if you do not raise your voice and anger him, starting off shouting or moaning will not win hi over, in fact it will have the opposite effect.