Consistency is a vital part of being a Submissive Wife.
You have to be submissive 365 days a year, there is no point being submissive one day them the next day going back to your old ways.
Your husband needs to see that you are committed to being the perfect wife, if you break your agreed rules encourage him to deal with the infractions let him see you are serious. Once he sees you are serious about being a submissive wife he will see you in a different light and he will feel the need to treasure you, he will want to make sure you are happy and feel loved.