Don’t dwell on what he hasn’t done.
Think about what you can do for him.
How often do you complain about things he hasn’t done around the home, you moan to your friends that your husband is lazy he won’t do this he won’t do that and by the time he comes home from work you are in the mood for an argument with him, during the day you have convinced yourself he is lazy.
Instead stop and think for a moment, what have I done for him today, have I gone out of MY way to do something for him, what can I do for him to make his day a little brighter happier. Then do it no matter how large or small.
When he comes home from work the atmosphere in the home will be completely different, you will want to see his smile when he see’s what you have done for him and he will want to show you his appreciation in many ways.