First answer these questions:

• Do you still love your husband
• Are your aruments about minor petty things
• Is your husband violent or abusive

If you answer Yes, Yes and No then I would reccomend that you learn about becoming a “Submissive Wife”

If you no longer love your husband then being a submissive wife will not help.
If your arguments are about serious matter such as infidelity, drinking, drug abuse etc then being a submissive wife will not help.
If your husband is violent and abuses you you should get out of the marriage.