Never go partying without having your husband’s permission.
Once you are married you have given up the right just to go out partying with friends, you are now his wife, and now you have to have his permission before you go out with friends.

Before you ask your husband permission to ask yourself are you wanting to go for the right reasons or does a part of you still wish you were single and could enjoy the single party life still.
If you are given the permission to go partying stick to the rules laid down by your husband, if he has restricted drinking, or given you a time you must be home by accepting his conditions gracefully. Remember he is trusting you, do not do anything to lose this trust
If you break these conditions, then you can only expect severe consequences from your selfish actions.

If your husband will not give you permission then that is the end of it, he will have his reasons, and you must accept these. Arguing or being disrespectful again will result in your husband having to correct your behaviour.