The Christmas Holidays are one of the most stressful times of the year and the sad fact is more marriages break down during this period than at any other time of year, which is sad when you consider it is the season of goodwill and joy.

Over the holidays I am going to post tips and advice on how you can get through the holidays and still be happily married at the end.  I would welcome feedback from you on any issues that you feel could cause you problems during the holidays.

Tip No: 1

Plan for the big day, don’t  leave everything to chance, make lists of things that have to be done and things that have to be bought.  Tick of the jobs that have been completed and the things that you have bought, don’t be afraid to ask your husband for help, it is better to admit that you need help than to disappoint him by failing to ask for help.  There is no shame in asking for help.